Part of your appeal as a Dom is the arsenal you bring to a scene. Before a planned session, I always take a quiet moment to think about the boy I’m playing with and map out the evening. And the first thing I do is open the gear bag. This bag is cultivated over years to reflect your exact passions. The heavy matte black cuffs that look so damn good against his skin. The paddles, crafted into literal tools for emotional triggers—the thick, solid wood for sheer force to break do